My bf of 7 months is always accusing me of not loving him enough and he does all the running. I have 4 kids from 6 yrs to 13 and he has two littlens, he is going through a messy split from his ex and her whole family hate him and have wrote nasty letters to him. I have even had a nasty letter through my door saying he has cheated on me with a few girls and was always talking bad about me, but it was annonomous so can not question the sender, of course he denied it. He always wanted to see me more offen than i did, and would start a row if i didnt see him now he wants to live with me and talks of gettin married he isnt even divorced! But i know it takes longer than this to really know someone and i want alot more space and time before i commit to anything, i do love him but have suggested we brake up coz he wants it all now and i dont, but he doesnt want that either and accuses me of using him, so he backs off for a week or so then it creeps bk.
I am in one sided love what should i do?
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My entire life, I've really struggled at showing affection and emotion. My boyfriend accuses me of "not feeling anything for him" and says our relationship is one-sided because I'm unable to give him as much affection as he'd like me to This hurts me so much because I love and care about him sooo much, I just really suck at showing it. As a kid, I never received much affection from my parents or anyone else so I never really learned how to be affectionate. On top of that, I've got really bad social anxiety and tend to keep my thoughts and feelings pent up inside me because I'm always worried about being laughed at or rejected.
one sided relationship?
I feel like she cares more than i do always saying how she loves me but im the one who puts more into the relationship. I've been in that situation. Get out.
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