Suddenly vanilla men and women were curious as to the different aspects of the lifestyle. This is so far from the truth and it really bothers those who are in the BDSM lifestyle. This is not a cookie cutter lifestyle. You can be married and have an outside Master. You can be single and play both the Dominant and submissive roles with different people.
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Social psychology: It is part of the BDSM group of paraphilias. Physical contact is not a necessity, and can even be conducted anonymously over telephone, email or more recently instant messaging services. In other cases it can be intensely physical, sometimes traversing into sadomasochism. Those who take the superior position are called Dominants , Doms male or Dommes female , while those who take the subordinate position are called subs or submissives.
Living life as a submissive isn't what most people expect - and it isn't all about sex. Learn more here. If you read that and imagine that I spend my days naked and on my knees waiting for my Dominant to throw out commands, think again. I am a female submissive with a male Dominant I call " Daddy.